A Nigerian man identified as Enzo Uzor has described a submissive woman as one who lacks opinion.
According to him, such a woman can lead a man to an early demise due to boredom.
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Uzor added that gone are the days when wives and children were expected to be silent observers, not daring to question anything the man does.
He stressed that these members of the family are now meant to be seen as well as heard.
“Don’t be deceived! A submissive woman is an opinionless woman. She will bore you to an early grave. Gone are the days wives and children dared not ask questions; today they are to be both seen and heard. Truth be told, most Nigerian men are stuck in stone age,” he wrote on Facebook.
See reactions:
@empyreallucy: “It depends on who you are submitting to.
A submissive wife is not an opinions less wife
In fact when you submit to the right husband you are actually the one running things but behind the scenes 😂.”
@i__loveb: “This one doesn’t even know the meaning of submission.”
@gagakeyz001: “So submissive don turn pointless or mumu button? Na make all this new marriage no de work out.”
@thechowarena: “Be submissive. It’s not bad. But submit to a man that knows the value of your submissiveness.”
@ihunaya_chi: “But How is being submissive makes u opinionless?”
@rachael_chinelo: “If everyone obeys the word of God as it relates to marriage, there won’t be any issues. Firstly, a wife is to submit to her husband, this doesn’t mean that she should be voiceless, this means that she respect and honour her husband as he is her master. She can speak clearly and respectfully and in the most humble way. For the man, he is to love his wife as Christ loved the Church. What better assignment than that? If a man loves his wife enough and the wife submits to her husband, there won’t issues. Love means that she can trust you to provide, protect and be loyal to her. Submission means that she will submit to your leadership, the question now is, how do you lead your wife? Can she trust your leadership?”
@yara_shayne: “Lead right as a man, submission is not forced or imposed, it’ll naturally come.”
@leshak_emmanuel: “….because God had the idea, and administered the first marriage, it would at one’s great peril to do marriage by their standards. There is a stark reality for which we are men and women! Any woman that does not understand the depth, Uniqueness and the rare privilege of submission would be so frustrated and unhappy in life, really! Women with those poor understanding of thier position and worth….are the ones smearing other weak-willed women with such poverty! Submissiveness/respect of a woman….to her man has been one of the most POWERFUL WEAPONS for women who know!! Dear women (especially the young/unmarried), do not learn marriage on social media alone; go to a Bible-believing Church to learn and visit homes/marriages that work well to see/learn! Watch CANDACE OWENS’ talks, interviews etc…especially around feminism! Don’t lose your worth; WE (Men/the world) WILL Be in huge trouble!! We need your position/Uniqueness like Oxygen…to succeed!!❤️🙏.”