A Nigerian lady, Tolu, took to Instagram to share some valuable relationship tips for women.
In her video, she shared five effective ways to disarm and control a man.
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Beginning with the fifth point, Tolu emphasized the importance of not resorting to shouting when communicating with one’s partner. She explained that maintaining a calm and respectful tone can go a long way towards resolving conflicts.
Moving on to the fourth tip, she advised against speaking in anger. She stressed the need for women to take a step back and collect their thoughts before engaging in discussions with their partners.
The third point Tolu made was about refraining from challenging or correcting one’s man without using endearing pet names. She suggested that incorporating affectionate terms while addressing concerns can help maintain a loving atmosphere within the relationship.
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Next, she highlighted the second tip, which involved avoiding the need to always be the winner in arguments or discussions. Instead of focusing on who is right or wrong, she encouraged women to prioritize understanding and compromise.
The number one point Tolu gave for a woman to disarm a man is that she should never walk out on him.
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Netizens react:
@bhadboy_ak: “I won’t be surprised if so many ladies does not key in with this, but the lady is 100% right actually there’s no manual to a marriage every man comes with different set of inner werey but no man on earth, I repeat no man earth will not be disarmed of all his werey ammunitions when a woman shows she’s defeated by him, and also this lady is very very intelligent to actually comps this together, but I’m not a preacher of love all the best 😂👏👏👏👏.”
@olabisialbert: “You have not met a narcissistic man, I did all this and more and I was still used like a mat, until I decided to have sense . Bro, the man that loves you genuinely won’t stress you. That was the lesson I learnt.” .
@kes.d_: “100% correct but it’s easier said than done. Its a win for any woman who can. No be juju na wisdom.”
@iyelafe: “Never walk away, ke? What if he nack me 2 by 2? 😂.”
@shanneisaac: “This is duly NOTED!!!!! I am ready lord!!!!!!😂😂.”
@chelcee_xx: “Omo true true i never ready to marry.”
@iamgyc: “Omo… with this kind sense, na this lady go lowkey the control her home 😍👏👏.”
@frosh_worldwide: ‘Asin ehn he will worship you 👏.”
@nailedbynanciy: “She made some really good points but sadly what works for lady A might not work for lady B however you can try to discover what works for you in your relationship.”
@_emamae: “Her points are valid to certain extent BUT Y’all know people are unique in their ways individually as well as the relationship between two or more persons?
Even down to friendship, the way you connect and communicate with one is quite different with another. Even with parents.
Not to talk of marriage… There’s different formula to this thing, do what’s best for you, with love.”